Dating is the experience of Self
A story about how to really enjoy this dating experience ♡
I know that you're out there… somewhere.
I feel you in my future. You, this cool person that carries the essence of “the One Soul” for me ;-)
I know you exist. I trust in that. And I am so excited to meet you one day.
Dating… yeah, well maybe we'll find each other that way.
But Dating is sooo much more than the search for “the One Soul” or at least the next right partner.
Dating is the experience of Self.
The way we learn to truly express who we are without holding back to “make a good impression”, whoever decides what that means.
It’s the dance with the Unknown and learning how to dive into this shared experience between two strangers.
Exploring this story and what it could be with a sense of curiosity.
Dating teaches you the world about yourself.
It opens up a new understanding of what you truly want, who you want to be - and how to be in your power.
Because Dating also mirrors us the areas in which we feel disempowered.
Stuck in normative thinking, held tight in collective wounds and stigmata.
Dating shows us our deepest wounds. Just like any relationship really.
And we can either see it as a burden and cut all cords immediately.
Or we sit in the discomfort and unearth the gift it hold for us.
The gift of growth.
The gift of independence.
The gift of a new experience.
Because when we choose to break free from what we thought we knew about Dating & open up to the possibilities it carries…
When we choose to take a new perspective, reflect & nourish self-awareness…
When we choose to shift what’s holding us small & step into our power…
… boy, it’s gonna be one heck of an adventure.
And once we realize that when we show up on a date in the truth of who we are, we’re on the brink of the most beautiful co-creation.
And this is what makes life feel so… alive.
And your Soulmate IS gonna pick up on that ;-)
Rebel Love, Clenda
P.S. Let me know about your dating experience!